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Old 04-21-2005, 05:59 AM   #51
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Speaking of milk money,

That's more the reason I was pissy than dieting. I just found out yesterday that my 11 year old son is getting picked on in school by 5 other boys. It caught me off guard, because he's been involved with Karate and boxing since he was 6, but the problem is that he got in trouble 2 years ago for fighting a kid, and the school went nuts, so I asked him not to fight anymore. Apparently these kids found out he wouldn't fight back and started following him home after school and calling him a "loser" and pushing him down. He was too embarassed to tell me, because he knows I'm big on sticking up for ones self. I found out yesterday because he had finally had enough of it, (this kids had followed him home right up to our door, calling him stuff and pushing on him) so my son went in the house and took one of my swords down from it's display stand and threatened to decapitate one of them. My wife caught him and I didn't find out all of this until I got home. I called the school today and they don't seem to really care. I told my son that I meant I didn't want him scraping every day, when I said "don't fight" and I didn't want him getting expelled. I told him that if they touch him again, to put his elbow through their teeth and let the toothfairy sort it all out.

I gotta sort all this stuff out when I get home from work tonight. Ironic, I was always the biggest kid in all of my classes and barely anybody ever even messed with me. My son however, has his biological mothers characteristics and he's not big boned. He also doesn't really like fighting. Not really sure what to do about it all.

I seriously wasn't trying to be harsh on here.
I know what your kid is going through.. I was small growing up and was always picked on because I wouldn't fight and the kids knew that I did martial arts.. and One day I flipped on one kid that would constantly pick on me.. I got in his face but never hit him.. I was sooo amped that I was shaking from it while being in his face.. everybody thought I was crazy because I was shaking.. and people just started rumors that I was crazy and not to mess with me.. now granted most of my school was full of sh!t talkers and no action so that worked out well for me.. but your area might be different... I say just have him knock the crap out of one kid off school property and on yours, that way if the kids go and tell mommy that a kid beat the crap out of them and they go to file a report.. it will be their fault because they were trespassing.. and your kid warned them
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Old 04-21-2005, 07:19 AM   #52
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I know what your kid is going through.. I was small growing up and was always picked on because I wouldn't fight and the kids knew that I did martial arts.. and One day I flipped on one kid that would constantly pick on me.. I got in his face but never hit him.. I was sooo amped that I was shaking from it while being in his face.. everybody thought I was crazy because I was shaking.. and people just started rumors that I was crazy and not to mess with me.. now granted most of my school was full of sh!t talkers and no action so that worked out well for me.. but your area might be different... I say just have him knock the crap out of one kid off school property and on yours, that way if the kids go and tell mommy that a kid beat the crap out of them and they go to file a report.. it will be their fault because they were trespassing.. and your kid warned them
SDF, hrdgain & cpdave, thanks for advice guys. Much appreciated. This is much more difficult to deal with than anything I personally had to deal with as a kid, because I feel pretty helpless when he's at school.

I think all of you gave good advice, and I pretty much told him the same thing. I told him if he see's 4 or 5 of them together, to just avoid them if he can. But I told him if he should catch one of those bastards on our street, by himself, to grab him and beat the living p*ss out of him, and to make sure he gets enough solid facial blows in, so that when the kid goes to school the next day (if he can even go) that everybody he comes across will ask him what happened. That way everyone will know he got his @ss handed to him.

The crazy thing could work (I know it didn't hurt me any, because apparently when I get really mad, I look kinda psycho) but I don't think it would work for my kid. He's slim, and a really good looking guy. He looks like he's more likely to become a male model down the road, than any sort of an @ss whooper. He has one thing going for him, he's pretty athletic, and has naturally gifted reflexes/hand eye coordination. He also hits very hard for a skinny kid (I know, he's bruised my ribs in training from repetitively hitting me with left hooks to the body). I think if he actually nailed one of them with a good shot in the face, it would end the fight.

Just like the way this thread started out though, I think we all agree, it's pretty difficult for anyone to win a 4 or 5 on 1 battle.

Thanks again for the concern. I really appreciate it. You guys are the best, most decent, big muscle bound rat bastards I've ever met.

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This situation really sucks BR! I know how it is to feel powerless, to do anything. My little brother went through a couple of years of torture from some bullies. Since I was and adult, I could not do anything neither could my parents or the school for that matter.

Myself and my other younger brother never had these problems, just my little bro was always very introverted. He's a smart kid that is now in UCLA, and is more social nowadays, but went through hell.

The torture for him only lasted a little while, as we did take care of it. It was drastic, but we had to do it (don't worry we didn't kill the little bastards)! But, I had some of my cousins that weren't adults yet at the time, take care of the situation. This really happened and there was alot of shit that went down. Hell even the cops got involved and everything. Even then it was all worth it for my little bro!

I really hope things work out for your son, it's just not right that bullies to get away with shit like this. If there is anything I could ever do for you don't hesitate to ask! Take care of yourself and your family too!

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Thanks again for the concern. I really appreciate it. You guys are the best, most decent, big muscle bound rat bastards I've ever met.

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This situation really sucks BR! I know how it is to feel powerless, to do anything. My little brother went through a couple of years of torture from some bullies. Since I was and adult, I could not do anything neither could my parents or the school for that matter.

Myself and my other younger brother never had these problems, just my little bro was always very introverted. He's a smart kid that is now in UCLA, and is more social nowadays, but went through hell.

The torture for him only lasted a little while, as we did take care of it. It was drastic, but we had to do it (don't worry we didn't kill the little bastards)! But, I had some of my cousins that weren't adults yet at the time, take care of the situation. This really happened and there was alot of shit that went down. Hell even the cops got involved and everything. Even then it was all worth it for my little bro!

I really hope things work out for your son, it's just not right that bullies to get away with shit like this. If there is anything I could ever do for you don't hesitate to ask! Take care of yourself and your family too!
Hey snach,

Thanks man, I appreciate that a lot.

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p.s. - you mentioned I could get your help anytime I need it Snach. I think I solved the whole problem. I just need your help digging up five 4 foot long holes in the ground....for some gardening (totally unrelated to the problem I'm having)
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p.s. - you mentioned I could get your help anytime I need it Snach. I think I solved the whole problem. I just need your help digging up five 4 foot long holes in the ground....for some gardening (totally unrelated to the problem I'm having)
LOL! I'm on the first flight out to Canada tonight! Just warm up the shovels and we will do some huma.....er daisy planting in the backyard.
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Hey, count me in on the daisy planting...LOL
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