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Old 08-14-2007, 03:06 PM
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ok if you guy's can give me so good advice/tips on getting girl's ,i'll leave this website ,and i never post another topic on here again.

but you goota help me first. i'm gonna list some thing's that cause me to be scared around girl's ,and you guy's tell me what to do about them ,but please leave serious answers.

1.i have messed up teeth ,and im afraid to talk to girls. i can't afford the dentist.
2. i lisp when i talk.
3. im always nervous.
4.i have pimples.i've tryed everthing to get rid of them.
5.i alway's worry the girl wont talk to me ,whenever i say something to her.
6. i'm afraid the girl i like won't like me back.
7. i'm afraid if do get a girlfriend ,i won't be able to buy her anything ,because i no money.
8.i live in a trailor ,and i'm afraid the girl will think i'm trash.
please leave serious answer's on what i should do about these problems
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Old 08-14-2007, 03:08 PM
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ok if you guy's can give me so good advice/tips on getting girl's ,i'll leave this website ,and i never post another topic on here again.

but you goota help me first. i'm gonna list some thing's that cause me to be scared around girl's ,and you guy's tell me what to do about them ,but please leave serious answers.

1.i have messed up teeth ,and im afraid to talk to girls. i can't afford the dentist.
2. i lisp when i talk.
3. im always nervous.
4.i have pimples.i've tryed everthing to get rid of them.
5.i alway's worry the girl wont talk to me ,whenever i say something to her.
6. i'm afraid the girl i like won't like me back.
7. i'm afraid if do get a girlfriend ,i won't be able to buy her anything ,because i no money.
8.i live in a trailor ,and i'm afraid the girl will think i'm trash.
please leave serious answer's on what i should do about these problems
plus i think i'm ugly. here's a picture of my face.
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Old 08-14-2007, 03:45 PM
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ok if you guy's can give me so good advice/tips on getting girl's ,i'll leave this website ,and i never post another topic on here again.

but you goota help me first. i'm gonna list some thing's that cause me to be scared around girl's ,and you guy's tell me what to do about them ,but please leave serious answers.

1.i have messed up teeth ,and im afraid to talk to girls. i can't afford the dentist.
2. i lisp when i talk.
3. im always nervous.
4.i have pimples.i've tryed everthing to get rid of them.
5.i alway's worry the girl wont talk to me ,whenever i say something to her.
6. i'm afraid the girl i like won't like me back.
7. i'm afraid if do get a girlfriend ,i won't be able to buy her anything ,because i no money.
8.i live in a trailor ,and i'm afraid the girl will think i'm trash.
please leave serious answer's on what i should do about these problems

1. insurance or medical?
2. if she can't accept you for who you are then she's not the one for you. besides i have a friend that has a lisp and he gets girls i mean top notch girls, you'll be fine
3. your not the only one. it also means your not a cocky fool but confadance is always good.
4. your human.
5. be yourself and talk about anything i talk about favorite colors, cereal, shopping pets and etc. ANYTHING don't be a perv
6. gotta give it time
7. if the girl wants you for just your money shes a gold digger and isn't the one for you. but spending money on your girl is nice but isn't a MUST.
8. i'm not wealthy but i'm going to school trying to be wealthy. its all about trying and picking paths for your future bro. i've been in some shit in my past and did the street thing. but i picked another path and stayed posative. so just pick yourself up and push yourself harder
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Old 08-14-2007, 03:48 PM
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1. insurance or medical?
2. if she can't accept you for who you are then she's not the one for you. besides i have a friend that has a lisp and he gets girls i mean top notch girls, you'll be fine
3. your not the only one. it also means your not a cocky fool but confadance is always good.
4. your human.
5. be yourself and talk about anything i talk about favorite colors, cereal, shopping pets and etc. ANYTHING don't be a perv
6. gotta give it time
7. if the girl wants you for just your money shes a gold digger and isn't the one for you. but spending money on your girl is nice but isn't a MUST.
8. i'm not wealthy but i'm going to school trying to be wealthy. its all about trying and picking paths for your future bro. i've been in some shit in my past and did the street thing. but i picked another path and stayed posative. so just pick yourself up and push yourself harder
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Old 08-14-2007, 03:52 PM
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ok thank's
no problem... you've been posting about getting girls here. are you seriously wanting to find a girlfriend? or just a one night stand haha?
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Old 08-14-2007, 04:03 PM
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i really want a girl friend ,but it's hard for me. i never even had a hug from a girl ,and i'll be 17 next month.
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I read that most of your points have to do with being "afraid" of anything to do with a girl.

IMHO it's just a mental thing. Go out into the trenches, my boy, and practice the basic approaching of women. It's man's curse that unless you look like Brad Pitt the man has to be the pursuer. It takes practice, but it's attainable the same way that you would only get into shape lifting weights and eating healthy instead of reading about it.

You would be surprised at what some girls will tolerate. I have a friend who is 4'5" tall who seems to always have a girlfriend. If he can do it, so can you!
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i really want a girl friend ,but it's hard for me. i never even had a hug from a girl ,and i'll be 17 next month.
are you friendly? or are you scared that you make yourself look mean? be friendly and if a girl looks into your eyes while she speaks to you that means you have her attention. also if you have girlfriends that are just "friends" starting talking to them at a different level. you can offer the hugs at times but don't be demanding just be natural.
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