I have the same problem, and i havent found a way around it yet. But instead of waxing/shaving which just makes it worse, I use hair clippers and trim my chest hair. making it all one short length, so its even and looks good. And that way you dont look like a fruit who shaves his chest.

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I don't do this for my family, my friends, women, accolades, pride, or ego. I do it for me and no one else, its just part of who I am.