well i am 25 so i am just making the cut
. me just looking at break ups in general i have a few opinions on why someone would do something like that.
first, he is going out of his way to tell all these people whatever he is telling them, because he realizes that majority of it is his fault or he is not willing to take any blame. he wants to tell everyone a story before you get to tell them anything. if he tells them a story, no matter what you tell them, people will always at the least consider his side of the story.
(dont take this next paragraph the wrong way)
second. you could have actually did him wrong but are only willing to take but so much blame. I have seen many many people be dead wrong and ask people for advice, and always wonder why they pick the people they pick when in all actuality they are the downfall of their relationships. i dont doubt anything you say, but i have ran into people that are just horrible
all in all. i do believe you. he is just not willing to take any blame at all. he wants everyone to look at you as the bad guy.........why?????? i have no idea. he can be doing it for many reason. he may want you to feel bad and get back with him, or he can be a legit a$$. the only way to get it to stop or get through this situation is to just act like it doesnt bother you. honestly, it shouldnt bother you. pay him and what he says no mind. the more you feed into it the worst it will get. people will believe what they want so just let it be. speak your peice pay him no mind and move on. it is much harder to do than it sounds, but thats what will make it better.