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Originally Posted by Hrdgain
After having that conversation 5-10 times, we both decided it just didnt matter anymore, and we didnt belong together.
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Bingo! All this going back and forth between the two of you takes time out of your day. You really shouldn't bother sticking up for yourself and show him that what he's doing warrents a second out of your day. If it's over, its over. Your friends and family will obviously be on your side. The problem with the arguing over who did what to whom is that it still leaves everything out there (aka "hope"). It's the same thing as going back to his place once a week and say, "Oh, I forgot my coffee machine." Or calling each other after a few days being single. When you decide to move on, there's no being friends.. Not to mention zero contact. The faster you move out and the faster you erase his number, the faster you can get your life back in balance. I've told a lot of people that the only way you're going to enjoy life is to be completely selfish and only care about what happens to you.