How serious is your relationship? Is she a keeper or is this an infatuation thing that’s going to be over in a few weeks? Decide which it is, then go from there.

Judging from what you’ve written, you guys are on different pages. She’s eating burgers and fries and it’s bothering you. You want to lose weight and take care of yourself and she doesn’t seem to care. She loves you for who you are and you don’t care.

Why are you not working out on the weekends? I realize you can’t lift on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, but you can get up early and jog or walk and burn a few calories.

You don’t have to eat unhealthy every time you go out. Eat a salad or something. If she wants a burger, let her eat a burger. You don’t have to order the same thing. Even burger joints have grilled chicken these days.

If you want to keep this girl, I’d advise that you don’t criticize how she eats every time you go out with her. I also would be so vain around her either. Remember, Carly Simon didn’t write the song to be flattering.

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