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Originally Posted by 0311
Bingo! All this going back and forth between the two of you takes time out of your day. You really shouldn't bother sticking up for yourself and show him that what he's doing warrents a second out of your day. If it's over, its over. Your friends and family will obviously be on your side. The problem with the arguing over who did what to whom is that it still leaves everything out there (aka "hope"). It's the same thing as going back to his place once a week and say, "Oh, I forgot my coffee machine." Or calling each other after a few days being single. When you decide to move on, there's no being friends.. Not to mention zero contact. The faster you move out and the faster you erase his number, the faster you can get your life back in balance. I've told a lot of people that the only way you're going to enjoy life is to be completely selfish and only care about what happens to you.
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Number erased... check. He kept my phone.
Moved out... check. And going back for things is pretty much out of the question. The night I left, I grabbed as much as I could and told him I'd be back in a couple of days to get the rest. When I got out there, he'd already packed for me. In other words, I was only allowed to take what he'd LET me take. He kept all of my supplements (which he doesn't even work out so it's not like he'll even use them). He went through one of the suitcases I already had packed with clothes so that he could govern what clothes I could have. He kept random things like a shirt he bought me. A tee I got at a biker rally. Some of my photoshoot clothes. Then of all that stuff I had packed that he'd let me keep, he tossed them in a box just so I couldn't have my suitcase.
Real mature, eh?
Guess it's a good thing I didn't have any furniture anymore.