Yeah i've gotten that a few times, you say to the doctor, it hurts when I do this, and his/her response is "dont do that". Its bullshit, you want to live normally, not be restricted by your injury. I would seak a second opinion, perhaps see an orthopedic or something. I dont know much about Labral Tears, but it doesnt seem like something that you would need surgery to recover from. But with the little knowledge I have, that doesnt mean much.

My recovery has actually been fairly quick considering how much damage i did. my collar bone protrudes from my trap now, and moves around a lot. Its hard to keep it stable at times. But if you work hard, you can come back from just about anything.

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