I agree completely that everyone must find what works for them but that is not about finding your side of two extreme ends of the spectrum. You got three roads and it tends to be the ones on the left and right that were replaced by the middle road. The old roads were more scenic but the new one burns less gas
There tends to be a middle road that is the answer and any time you settle to one extreme or the other it is like fighting gravity. Something always gives. Extremes are everybody's favorite. We spend too much time there. Roll a ball bearing in a round bowl and it will eventually spend much more time in the bottom middle of the bowl than it will at the top edges. This is nature at work