Depending on where I am in my progress towards a competition, shoot, etc. I'll base my meal off of that. I don't go all out though. Simple things like homemade fries, aesthetic pizza, even some homemade nachos... those are a few of my favorite cheats. I usually try and keep them within my macros of course! But as long as it's a meal and not a day, you should be ok! Moderation and discipline is key. Once a week perhaps. But it's called a "cheat" meal for a reason. You can cheat yourself out of accomplishing your goals - you can cheat yourself out of being the best possible version of you! Whatever you decide, just make sure you account for it, especially when dieting down for a comp or shoot. It'll all be worth it afterwards.
Cheers.