your right, but its just i have to prove my self it seems to people, i went through a time of teasing and i hated it. I finally got the respect i deserve and so many comments...it opened up a whole new life for me, im so glad i did it .. i just want to better my self, im probably to hard on my self though, its just a jealousy factor i guess, all the girls being attracted to the abs and stuff. that's what i want :o. but your completely true..thanks