Ava is growing on me to..

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_2-7AdSkZA7...Cowan-sexy.jpg

I think alot of guys see muscles as a man thing, and believe women shouldnt have them. When they do see a chick with muscles they just see a she-man. Theres a girl that goes to my gym with the best abs ive ever seen, on a male or female, there just awesome and i often think about chatting her up. To me, its so sexy and a big turn on but when i pointed her out to a friend he asked wheather i was gay, again because he thinks only men should have muscles like that.
Btw IK ive seen your pictures (very hot), have you had anymore done since??

Last question for now IK, what about men? Do you go for the Jay Cutler? Or smaller? Or just the tonned look??

Well said , agree 100%

Ava is gorgeous! Abs are amazing. I dont see how guys can think thats too much muscle or that she looks like a man in any way.

Nice to have you back IK

I know personally i get a lot of mixed reactions from guys, particularly about my calves. In fact just yesterday some guy came up to me in the gym and said "i think you should stop training your calves. Dont get me wrong they are very well defined and all and i would love them if they were on me, but your a girl and its just overkill" haha

i politely replied "jealousy is a b*** aint it?" bat my eyelashes at him, smiled and walked away.

Madmatt: you didnt ask me but personally i go for men smaller than that. i dont think he's too big or anything its just that i find myself more admiring his dedication than being attracted to him. I think Frank Zane has a nice figure but IMO you dont have to be at that status for a woman to be attracted to you. As long as you care about your body and you look and feel good. Thats what matters.

i'll thow in my worthtless $.02 here, but i think muscles on women can be very sexy sometimes. it really depends on the woman i guess. i thought Jennifer Worth, DJ Wallis and Lena Johansen were all completely drop dead gorgeous with plenty of sexy muscle. personally i dont go for the current hardcore female BBers, the sport has gone too far in my opinion both for the women and men. but Cory and Rachel McL were and still are beautiful women (last i saw of them anyway). this is not to say that is my preferred kind of woman, it is not, but i can appreciate them very much!
for what its worth, i prefer the 'softer and curvier' kind like Lucy Pinder, Denise Milani, Salma Hyek etc etc, and yeah just give me 15 minutes alone with Pam Grier please, lol!

DX4gunn - i find it amazing that a guy would actually walk up to you and give you his opinion without being asked!! how fucking rude is that? your reply was perfect though, good going!

it is my experince that a fairly small percentage of women are going to say they find guys like Jay Cutler attractive, body-wise. in fact i can not remember one woman i've ever discussed this type of thing with that found any of the pros sexually attractive at all. they usually say "those guys are fucking gross!', lol!

and i agree, a guy definitely does NOT have to be at the level of Frank Zane for a woman to be attracted to him ;-) but Zane is an almost attainable 'ideal' as far as male muscle goes for me in my visualization with my own training.

worthless $.02 over :biglaugh:

Riddick: Yea i was kind of shocked that he came up and said it too but hey it made me laugh for the rest of the day.

Even with Frank Zane i find myself more appreciating the time it must have taken to get there rather than a sexual appeal. I would say moreso size wise. I honestly go for a 'softer' look typically but it was just an example.

dont forget Larissa Reis...

i'm sure he thought he was being mr smart ass cool but all he did was reveal a ton of shit about his own insecurities and lack of self esteem.

i had never heard of Larissa (she is pretty hot though!). i am so out of the loop for the current competitors, i just totally lost interest in the sport when a bloated 300lb Ronnie Coleman won the Olympia and Susie Curry kept winning the Fitness O even though her physique was nowhere near the caliber of Jenny Worth. It seems Jenny lost interest in it as well!
the IFBB judges reeeeeeeally screwed the sport up big time in the last 10 years or so.

maybe it'll seem funny but the muscle on these women never bugs me, what DOES bug me is the breast implants! it is not a good look in my opinion but it seems like 99% of the female muscle competitors have them now.

but i certainly wouldnt walk up to a woman in the gym and say, dont you think you should take those implants out?

:biglaugh:

But if you did...would that be showing off your insecurities with your own breasts? :biglaugh:

I do agree that the implants look bad on most.


http://i82.photobucket.com/albums/j2...1981/squat.jpg

lol, yeah i guess my secret would be out if i did that!!

that pic is great, i think i'm gonna print it out and hang it up where i train :biglaugh: