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marcusmax 01-07-2014 10:50 AM

My out of control girl friend HELP!
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Ok don't flame me..but I am desperate for help. I am in good shape, lift 5-6 days out of the week, eat well blah blah. When I met my girl she was slim and sexy. Well she has turned into a party girl this last year and is slowly ballooning. She used to look hot like Kat Von it's more like FatFACEVonD. :/ I'm afraid if she keeps going like this she will be massive..we were considering marriage but i don't want to be wed to a tatted whale. Nothing I say or do is helping..I can't deal with her. I attached a couple of pics so you see what I mean... HELP!

UmmmPain 09-29-2014 10:52 PM

Sounds like you have some personal problems with her... If she's not "hot enough, and you can't deal with her" then stop fuckingg around and end it... Don't be a jerk, and if you fell in love with her looks, you should be single... And good luck with the being shallow bro good luck.

Lee_Torre 09-30-2014 04:10 PM

Dude, I help this is a joke. If not, you need to do some serious self-evaluating.

JefferySais 11-08-2014 03:41 AM

It is real simple, you don’t have an obligation to stay with her – and she does not have an obligation to stay in shape. If you do not like her the way she is, tell her that she can either lose weight or the relationship is over. But do not try to covertly get her to lose weight – that never goes well.

Milaonsupps 06-25-2016 03:52 AM

You should try to motivate her.

Hudd 10-09-2016 11:03 AM

so what is the result to this story? marriage- kinds?

eatandsquat 10-14-2016 05:19 AM

I'm a girl so I guess I can share my opinion with you.

Well, first of all, it would hurt her feelings if she finds out that you don't want to be married to a "tatted whale." If you don't want to be with someone who is a little bit on the voluptuous side, then don't. I personally find it stupid when men care about looks above anything.

Anyway, this can only go two ways - either you end things with her (because she's getting bigger, which is pretty shallow, BTW), or you motivate her to start a healthier lifestyle. And since you mentioned that she's turned into a party girl, I suppose that meant she's been doing a lot of drinking which is generally unhealthy. Talk her out of it, and take her to the gym with you. Take working out as a form of bonding for you two, get creative with it and make it something that you two would enjoy doing together. It won't just help in making your girlfriend healthier, eventually, it can lead to a healthier relationship between the two of you as well.

So.. good luck. Whatever decision you two come up with, I hope you both meet at mutual terms.

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