I've never cared about what my squat/dead/bench is compared to each other. It doesnt make sense to, its a waste of time. Push your numbers up on all three, where they land is where they land. Unless of course your taining for PL comp, in which case I completely understand.
Everyone is different, before the shoulder injury I could press 315 for multiple sets, and think nothing of it. but if i did one set of 315 on squat, I could barely walk the next day. But both my squat and my bench were progressing ... and thats all that really matters.
I don't do this for my family, my friends, women, accolades, pride, or ego. I do it for me and no one else, its just part of who I am.