I'll post this, but you need to understand everything from here on down is just shit i've seen posted else were, I dont personally know any women who have used these suppliments.
I've 'heard' that anagen is safe for women, its a basic ecdy+adaptagen product. I'm using it now and liking it alot. but i'm male so that doesnt mean much.
PowerFull by usplabs is said to be safe for women. and has great user feedback in males.
I have finally convinced my girlfriend to try Camphabolic by usp labs. Female users have reported significant fat loss with minimal strength loss, and a positive effect on "regularity". Even those who have IBS found it to ease thier "shitty" symptoms ... pardon the pun.
Staple supps like CEE and citruline malate would be benificial to gaining strength, and of course your post workout nutrition should be in order ... Protien shake with low GI carb source.
I don't do this for my family, my friends, women, accolades, pride, or ego. I do it for me and no one else, its just part of who I am.